From: Steve Magness <stevemagness@substack.com>
Subject: "Don't Keep Score." Norway's Sporting Success
Norway made the knockout round of the World Cup, with one of the best players in the world leading them their. A far cry from a team that hadn’t made the world cup since 1998. Norway has long dominated the Winter Olympics, but increasingly they’re having success in summer sports. Beyond soccer, they have top triathletes, runners, decathletes, tennis players, and have had global success in handball and beach volleyball. They won 8 medals at the 2024 Summer Olympics, spanning 6 sports. Norway has fewer people than the Houston metropolitan area, yet continues to produce world champions across both winter and summer sports. And this is their youth sports program:
They let kids be kids. And it works. In Norway, 93% of kids play some sort of youth sport. In America, that number is 58%, with kids in the US in the lowest income bracket only reaching 38%. By any metric, Norway’s elite athletes are achieving on a global stage. Yet, if we turn to their youth sports, their programs are the opposite of the US. Norway doesn’t allow for official score keeping until the age of thirteen. They dissuade early national travel teams in favor of local leagues. You can’t even post the results of youth games online without being fined. And almost sacrilegious in certain American circles, Norway doesn’t allow trophies unless everyone gets one. As Tore Ovrebo, Norway’s director of elite sport, told USA Today writer Dan Wolken, “We think the biggest motivation for the kids to do sports is that they do it with their friends and they have fun while they’re doing it and we want to keep that feeling throughout their whole career.” Their youth sporting model can be summed up with their chosen slogan, “Joy of Sport for All.” But not keeping score, giving out trophies, not being “win at all costs”...that’s anti-American! How can they be competitive? Research backs their approach up. The Fire Has To Come From WithinIf you look at research on prodigies who eventually become standout adult performers, a deep intrinsic drive is paramount. Researchers found that intrinsically motivated football players were 3.5x more likely to make it to the next level, and athletes in general 2x more likely. The problem is that early success often pulls young people away from this inner drive. Kids start playing soccer (or violin or chess—this isn’t just about sports) because it is exciting and fun. As they improve, they gain accolades and praise from their parents, coaches, and teachers. They start winning trophies or seeing their names in online commentary. Without even realizing it, their intrinsic drive gets replaced by external validation and a need to please and impress others. The quickest way to kill that internal motivation? Hype achievements and be a crazy controlling parent or coach. The best way to create and maintain intrinsic motivation is to let kids dabble, explore, and find something with which their interests and talents align. Then, let them enjoy it without an undue emphasis on success. Praise effort, character, and teamwork, not results. This is easy to talk about but hard to do. Find ways to reward and incentivize the values you want to instill. That means not taking the easy road and talking about who set a new mile best or scored the most points, but instead highlighting who hustled during the fourth quarter, rallied after it seemed like the match was over, or displayed exemplary sportsmanship. Go Broad over SpecializationEven if the entire point of youth sports was to create future champions (which it’s not), we’d still adopt something similar to the Norwegian model. An analysis of over 6,000 athletes explored what separates athletes who reached world class and those who came up short. Those who reached world-class had during their youth:
Those who performed well when young, but didn’t progress:
Norway doesn’t have 300 plus million people and an NCAA system to funnel talent. They have to develop theirs. And they realize the best way to do that is keep as many people in the system as possible. Sure, soccer tends to start early and not quite have as much sports generalization, but all research points to lots of unorganized play even in soccer. When we assess performance early on, we’re not measuring talent, we’re looking at training age and opportunity. And we’re crowning winners based on who started grinding first. Research backs this up, kids born early in the year are 9x more likely to be picked at U16 than late-born kids, an edge that nearly vanishes by adulthood. America gets away with the insane achievement model because we can burn out 9 kids to get 1 survivor. When we narrow our focus too early, we create fragility. A prospective study of 1,544 high-schoolers found highly specialized athletes had 1.85x the rate of lower-body injury vs. low-specialization peers. Norway can’t afford that. They take the longer, more sustainable model. Their football associations entire motto is "as many as possible, as long as possible, as good as possible." This is also reflected in their coaching style, which varies based on sport, but generally takes advantage of a more modern ecological approach. Instead of the old school football coach dictating and demanding, doing his best job of imitating a drill sergeant, Norway and other Scandanavian countries are at the forefront of using more constraints led approaches. They let the environment do more of the coaching. There’s more of an emphasis on play, exploration,varying the game dynamics with small sided games, and constraints. This isn’t every coach or situation, but many of the European development models are at the forefront of minimizing the over prescribing we see all too much in America. Rethinking Youth SportsThe whole point of youth sports should be for kids to learn, develop, have fun, and want to come back and play again next season! The best chance of developing a D1 scholarship athlete is essentially to do the exact opposite of what our current youth sports fiasco promotes. Even the poster child for early specialization, Tiger Woods, acknowledged it’s not a good thing for parents to push their kids too hard: “Don’t force your kids into sports,” he says. “I never was. To this day, my dad has never asked me to go play golf. I ask him. It’s the child’s desire to play that matters, not the parent’s desire to have the child play. Keep it fun.” While youth sports in America aren’t going to adopt the Norwegian model anytime soon, we can rebalance the equation. As I outlined in my book, it’s not getting rid of competitiveness, it’s rebalancing the equation to make sure that crazy mom, dad, or coach don’t extinguish the fire that makes great competitors (and sport fun!). And even though we like to blame that “crazy” parent, it’s often not the root of the problem. The entire system surrounding youth sports is. A 2026 study of 1,229 families found that parents’ over-investment in youth sports was driven by external pressure, especially from club coaches, and not by a delusional belief that their kid was the next pro. In fact, belief in the child’s potential didn’t predict greater spending on youth sports at all. The pressure is manufactured by the system the family is standing in. Change the incentives, and the behavior changes with it. In research on performance orientation and grades in school, a teaching environment that supported and emphasized mastery , where students focused on the process of learning and comprehension instead of a comparison to others, was also linked to better grades. But it wasn’t the direct relationship that an outcome orientation had. Instead, in one study on college students, a mastery approach was linked to challenge-seeking, which in turn predicted end-of-the-year grades. In another study, mastery goals predicted higher levels of interest and enjoyment. Mastery works on our approach system without activating avoidance. It frees us up to take on a challenge and pursue our interests without getting bogged down by the pressure or judgment that often comes with an obsession with outcomes. The same findings hold true when looking at sport or the workplace. In a large meta-analysis that analyzed the impact of goal setting in sports, process-orientated goals had a large effect on performance. Outcome goals had little to no effect. These two paths represent a fast versus slow road to success. Both a mastery or outcome focus can lead to better performance, but the latter is akin to taking a shortcut. Obsession over outcomes is the most direct path to improvement, but it comes with some downsides that shift us toward avoidance. The slow path takes a longer, indirect route. It helps improve our performance not by focusing on the results themselves but by supporting the foundation that ultimately leads to better performance. It stokes the fire of enjoyment and interest to sustain our curiosity and work ethic over the long haul. It pushes us toward challenge-seeking so that when we inevitably hit a roadblock, we’ll take it on instead of trying to protect our ego. Both approaches work. One is more sustainable, providing success with less angst. Society has thrown us so far out of balance that we can’t even see the slow route right in front of us. We can either instill a love of sport in our youth, or we can turn sport into a burden where kids are exhausted, stressed, and scared. We’ve seen this go both ways, and the results couldn’t be more different. One leads to happy, healthy, and better young athletes. The other leads to burnout, family tension, mental health challenges, and quitting. As parents, volunteers, coaches, and community members, let’s all do what we can to minimize the latter and champion the former. -Steve This was excerpted from Chapters 2 and 3 of Win the Inside Game, where I evaluate the Norwegian and American system for developing talent and motivation. Thanks for reading! This post is public so feel free to share it. You’re currently a free subscriber to this newsletter by Steve Magness. To go deeper, upgrade your subscription.
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